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Never Split the Difference

Key mindsets and tactics to use in communication. While nominally about negotiation, there is much here to say about influence. Communication, influence, negotiation --- these are things we use all the time in technical leadership.

  1. Listen first. (Seek first to understand.)
  2. Mirror.
  3. Accusation audit.
  4. No oriented questions.

Also:

  • How to specifically negotiate amounts. Get exponentially closer and do not end on a super specific even number.