Never Split the Difference
Key mindsets and tactics to use in communication. While nominally about negotiation, there is much here to say about influence. Communication, influence, negotiation --- these are things we use all the time in technical leadership.
- Listen first. (Seek first to understand.)
- Mirror.
- Accusation audit.
- No oriented questions.
Also:
- How to specifically negotiate amounts. Get exponentially closer and do not end on a super specific even number.